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Your college essay is a mess, but it will be amazing

May 30, 2022 by Sara Nolan Leave a Comment

"Messay" Process Your college essay might be a mess before it's amazing. I have many students freaking out when their essay is in the messy inchoate stage. Trust the writing process to move from a-mess-ing to amazing! You know what happens when the sun begins to rise? That's just the idea of the day beginning. It hasn't figured itself out yet. It's a hot mess! The whole sky goes crazy, and it tries out all these different colors. They are not the same colors, or in the same order, as yesterday's sunrise. You know why? Me neither. The sun is just going through a process. The atoms have moved around and swapped outfits. They blaze and reorganize. Take notes for your college essay! Beautiful Oops = Mistake Composting I read my kids a book called Beautiful Oops (if I'm really honest we lost our copy, but stick with me). I recommend everyone get their hands on it and absorb it. This is a how-to book designed to help the perfectionists among us calm the F down. It's also for those who can't handle their mistakes and meanderings as a natural part of the process. This book says-- no such thing as a mistake! Take that coffee spill, that misshapen tree, that sentence that is tomato sauce dribbled on your prom outfit, and turn it into something else. It was getting you to your art all along.  In fact, that might be your stroke of genius. It's messy before it's sweet I have a lot of students who come to me very early in the college essay process. They are stressed the F out, because they are not sure what they are writing about, and the essay isn't coming out looking finished, in 650 words. That advice thread on Reddit didn't make their essay get born whole. Prince Ea's magic words didn't conjure it. The messy process of creation is a bit uncomfortable.  Hey now! Is the sun making a big deal about its sprawl? Should my kids never scribble scrabble in the process of drawing a dragon (it breathes fire, yo!)? Is it OK that I have to step to the left and right  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Solutions, State of Mind, Uncategorized, Writing Tips Tagged With: admissions essays, College essay writing process, confidence, Creativity, messydraft, stress, the writing process, trust

Free-writing for your college essay content? Yes!

May 18, 2016 by Sara Nolan

pencil shavings from free-writing

I'm a big believer in guided free-writing for students: Just when you think you have nothing to write about for your college essay (or generally!), BOOM, a subject appears from the back of your mind. It's like magic: awesome, repeatable and yours if you want it. Free-writing helps young writers produce freely I watched this magic happen again this weekend in Chicago, at JPMorgan Chase The Fellowship Initiative. We convened on the 56th floor of the company skyscraper, where I offered my intro to the college essay workshop (a sizzling title!) meant to fire up the Fellows' creative circuits. The offices sported a dizzying, commanding view of miniaturized downtown, Big Ole Lake Michigan, and a huge sky. The view itself said, "We own this!"  Exactly how I hope the students come to feel about their college essays. Exactly where the productive power of free-writing can get you.  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Practice, Questions, State of Mind, Uncategorized, Writing Tips Tagged With: college essay writing, Creativity, Free-writing, free-writing prompts, prompts, start your college essay, stress

Be Bold in Your College Essay

April 12, 2016 by Sara Nolan

Stage at operahouse

A bold kid on a mission to write When I was in fourth grade, I was obsessed with opera.  And I had a bold teacher, Mr. F, who was lanky and fierce in creativity and temper. He always smelled like coffee. Luckily, he also was obsessed with opera-- some of the same ones. And, like me, he liked to write. Mr. F, however, was a musician who had actually written and produced an opera. About the revolutionary war. For fourth graders to perform. In a public elementary school. I was 9.  I told Mr. F I wanted to write an opera.  And what did he say?  Go for it; I'll help you. This encouragement is what each of us needs to be equally bold. Someone saying, Got dreams?  Got something to say? Go for it; I'll help you.  What did I know then about ambition? I wore paisley print stretch pants, velour shirts, and Velcro sneakers, to give you an idea.  I was still eating pita-and-peanut-butter-and-honey for lunch every day, and throwing my invariably mealy apple in the over-sized cafeteria trash can (and why was it over-sized? Guess!). But even with no feel yet for literary structure, never having written lyrics, I still thought I could write an opera.  And I started right away on my dad's long yellow legal pads.  What I wrote strangely resembled my favorite opera in character, in plot and....I had no idea how one would compose song. Do you get it? I could do none of the things required to actually write an opera, but I still THOUGHT I COULD DO IT. As soon as I was supported, I got started. I was bold. Self-doubt was not even in my vocabulary. I think the opera is somewhere in my parent's basement now.  I don't need to see it because I'm embarrassingly confident how bad it is. But I'm so proud of that kid. In your college essay, be like a ballsy fourth grader.. Here's the deal: your work is only as bold as you're willing to be. And sometimes we need a hand at our back, a voice in our ear saying, Go For It. Sometimes we need to switch our seat at the  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Destiny, Stories, Teachers, Uncategorized, Wisdom Tagged With: "Imagine", anecdote, bold, college essay, Creativity, encouragement, Essay Writing, get started, personal story, PS22 Chorus, teacher, where to start

Stay Inspired

February 3, 2016 by Sara Nolan

How do YOU stay inspired, Toni Morrison?   I was already nursing a huge crush on Toni Morrison as she spoke about her fictional characters' natural limitations-- how, like you and I, they only know what they know. Her confiding tone, her flirtatious but never-bullshitty manner, made me (and every other "me" there to see her, I suspect) feel as if it were just us two on a porch together, at some place and time that compelled honesty to a fault. Ms. Morrison's interviewer, Professor Claudia Brodsky, drew an audience question from the stack of submitted index cards.  She smiled at the author, a close friend and subject of her academic studies: "How do you stay inspired?" The Brooklyn temple, packed to the gills, hushed entirely to hear what Ms. Morrison would say, with her twinkling eyes and easy hands, with her direct simplicity and charm. Because, hell, this was like the elixir of creative life about to come from the Mouth of Literary Giant Morrison. This could fix all of our problems. She said WHAT? But Instead of haranguing the muse's poor attendance record, instead of telling us a recipe, a trick, her answer was both jubilant and matter-of-fact: "Because I can't not!" Right. She can't not stay inspired. Anyone else have that problem? "Because I have to be creative," she continued. "I have to be! It's me!"  She said that the way a doctor might tell you your blood had to circulate. Let that sink in: queen of the novel, now well into her wisdom-years, in a wheelchair for unknown reasons, with her nest of braided hair resting in the curve of her neck like a crown worn backwards, continues to be creatively inspired not because she owes it to anyone, not because of any contract, not because of anything. Because that's who she is. She can't help you stay inspired-- but you can! All the desperate writers in the room, all the hungry writers, the people slightly disenchanted with their lot or lives or creative practice, all those  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Integrity, State of Mind, Teachers, Uncategorized, Wisdom Tagged With: Claudia Brodsky, Community Bookstore, Creative Practice, Creativity, God Help the Child, Ileana Jiminez, inspiration, Muse, Timothy Greenfield-Sanders, Toni Morrison, writing tips

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