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Writing About Your Weaknesses in Your College Essay

November 24, 2020 by Sara Nolan 2 Comments

A piece in which I say YES YOU CAN and tell you a story about my sour relationship with math. Will My Weaknesses Work Against Me in My College Essay? I had a parent reach out and ask if their kid was hurting their chances in their college essay by writing so articulately about their weaknesses. The answer is: no. Not if other ingredients are there.  To be articulate about your weaknesses, to reckon with them honestly and without self-pity, to show transformation in your character (as this student did), these themselves are strengths. (And also commendable qualities in grown-up people: I know many who still can’t do this without elaborate defenses, and yelping ego).  To also write well in the process, and think methodically? Well, these are prized traits in college admissions essays. So I want to take a minute to experiment with writing about one of my weaknesses--starts with an M, ends with an H, and has AT in the middle. 4 letters. Guess it yet?   Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Integrity, State of Mind, Stories, Uncategorized, Wisdom Tagged With: authenticity, college admissions essay, flaws, perspective, vulnerability

Not what happened, but how you stress it

September 24, 2018 by Sara Nolan Leave a Comment

how are you viewing your stress

Reframing How We Talk About Stress A lot of college essay help is framed around reducing your stress-- guilty as charged. But maybe what I mean is: reducing your stress about your stress. A recent NYTimes article examined stress in young people and how we go the wrong route, as grown ups, when we try to protect them from it. All organisms, of which we are one, need some stress to stimulate growth, change and adaptation. It's good for mental and physical muscles. To a point.  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Solutions, State of Mind, Uncategorized, Wisdom Tagged With: anxiety, college essay writing, growth, perspective, reframing, stress

End-of-life perspective on your college essay

June 17, 2016 by Sara Nolan

hearts swinging

Shift your perspective from "I'm gonna die!" to "End of life" insight Probably the last thing on your mind while writing your college essay is your end-of-life perspective. Now, it's also true that, while working on your college applications, you might catch yourself saying things like: "I am gonna DIE from this stress!" or "I will DIE if I don't get into XYZ school!"     But actually: you won't die. You are being figurative. (And here's some comic relief for you. Go laugh.) However, at the very moment you swear, "This workload is killing me" (no, no it isn't), many people actually are dying. And the dying frequently say painfully honest, instructive things. We're going to mix it up a bit. Take a break from the pressure and anxiety of the application process. Consider instead the refreshing and challenging vantage dying people can offer-- all of us. End-of-life influence on your essay Your college essay, if it's to be anything other than a hurdle and obligation, is an opportunity to get honest in that same way.  This 650-word spotlight on you gives you unique opportunity to look closely at your life, let go of what isn't working (on the page and off), and to say something fresh. Something that at your end-of-life self might give a high-five. Kerry Egan, essayists and end-of-life chaplain, culls some brilliant advice from the dying here.  It's advice in the form of their wistfulness, of their regret. Most wish they could have listened to their inner impulses and just loved themselves, their bodies. For whatever those bodies were, for all that those bodies did.  Read their words, and soak in them. A love like that Can your personal essay be an act of rebellious love?  Why not? What if you adopt this end-of-life perspective, and love yourself, truly? Your one and only body, the service it does for you and others? Can you even include in that love whatever is wrong with you, or whatever other people say is wrong with you, and  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Destiny, Solutions, State of Mind, Uncategorized, Wisdom Tagged With: anxiety, end-of-life, love, perspective, wisdom

Do I tell the truth in my college essay?

September 22, 2015 by Sara Nolan

College essay truth telling

As Emily Dickinson once wrote in her college essay, "Tell all the truth but tell it slant..." In this post, we'll help you figure out what that means for your college essay.  And give you a basic primer in being friendly to yourself, which really helps. Shall the truth set you free? Should you tell the truth about yourself in your college essay? What should you do if you suspect the truth isn't that purdy?  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Integrity, Questions, State of Mind, Stories, Uncategorized Tagged With: admissions officers, college essay, insecurities, interest, perspective, slant, talent, truth

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