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5 minutes in the bathroom to write your college essay

November 17, 2019 by Sara Nolan 3 Comments

Sometimes, you bump into the subject of your writing when you're not trying-- like in the bathroom. The classier version of this is called the "shower effect"-- it's a real thing. You only need 5 minutes and faith. Often the trying itself keeps your topic at arm's length, stiffly.But not straining in trying? And simply being available? That woo-woo stuff? It often works far more effectively. GAH. How annoying and wonderful is that? JUST FIVE MINUTES? As my mentor Rick Benjamin says, "It's really five minutes + your whole life leading up to this moment." DETAILS. Give Your College Essay a "Quick Change" in the stall This afternoon, I went to the single-stall bathroom at a non-profit where I teach personal essay writing to (some of NYC's most awesome) 7th and 8th grade public school students. The door was locked, but within minutes, my student came out, fancied up: a maroon dress over a filled, collared shirt, black knee socks, and black patent leather pointy toe shoes. She was ready for her upcoming school interview. Moments before, she'd been hunched over her math worksheets, solving equations, chewing her lip and eating her sweatshirt string nervously. (Side Fact: I haven't solved an equation since puberty settled in, so I always salute students doing such worksheets, though in my case eating strings would be more productive than isolating the variable and so on. <---WHAT I RECALL FROM ALGEBRA BUT I DIGRESS.) What's I'm recommending here is, despite the number 5, not mathematical-- but you do need structure in the end. little time, big difference Thing is, I was surprised to see my student emerge from the bathroom so changed. It struck me I'd never seen her dressed up, and her whole persona and body language had shifted with the outfit. "You got this!" I told her (likely true), which is maybe the only thing worth saying right before someone has an interview. Especially when you can assume they've already done the most  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: revision, State of Mind, Students, Uncategorized, Wisdom, Writing Tips Tagged With: college essay crunch, college essay writing, revision, shower effect

November Essay-Writing Blues? Take a Shower!

November 23, 2013 by Sara Nolan

Blue over You You don’t like your current college essay—at all.  It revolts you: the written word should never have been invented.  It’s late November: you’re freaking out.  Your essay tastes like stale white bread instead of the perfection you could have said. Stop. Take a shower.  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: State of Mind, Uncategorized, Wisdom, Writing Tips Tagged With: Essay Writing, ideas, shower effect, trust

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