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Chill out writing strategies that work

May 30, 2020 by Sara Nolan Leave a Comment

writing strategies from Maya Angelou

I promise these are writing strategies that work... ...only if you do them. These strategies might feel uncomfortable and awkward at first, but so does being born. And that didn't stop us, did it? Both writing strategies involve a wall, which everyone has or can find. Any wall will do! Nothing special there. After you've learned the practice, you'll be able to IMAGINE a wall, but it helps at first to have a physical wall to use. Strategies that work: Being Seen Sit in front of the wall. Elevate your hips on a support or cushion if your knees are annoyed right away. Feel or imagine a tall spine and the dignity you were born with. Relax your shoulders (always). Imagine the wall is looking at you. It can see you. Its eyes are the warm accepting eyes of a grandparent, or any adult who cares for you immensely. If you don't have an adult like that in your life, invent one, or imagine your ancestor, or a really loving person in a movie. Your only job is to let yourself be seen. Keep relaxing. Don't try to hide anything from the wall-- it's just a wall! When you feel done, get up, but don't feel the need to snap out of it. What if the people in your world could really see you? What would they see? Strategies that work: Breathing Fully Start the same way: sit in front of your wall as comfortably as possible. Imagine the wall has a mural on it.  Imagine the coolest, most vivid mural you can think of, or look one up, first, so you can have a bright image in mind. But just one problem: this mural has somehow become covered over in dust and funk! As you inhale, imagine and truly feel that you are slowly drawing a layer of dust off the mural, revealing a gorgeous, exciting piece of art. As you exhale, imagine that you are scattering the dust, revealing more of the art. Breathe in very slowly, so none of the dust goes up your nose: you are just clearing space. Breath out gently, so that the layer of dust is scattered lightly: you are  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Exercise, Integrity, Practice, State of Mind, Uncategorized, Wisdom, Writing Tips Tagged With: freewriting, meditation, self-care, writing tips

Feeling Stuck? Move!

May 19, 2017 by Sara Nolan

Stuck really sucks Do you ever just feel stuck? Literally? On the page, in your head, with that stupid crank in your neck? Twinge in your tight back? If you said no, never been stuck,  you're amazing, and also the exception.  You should come over and tell me all your secrets, which I can afterward try to pass off in a blog post as my own. (Just kidding, but you will obviously be on Oprah before then!) Thing is: Most of us, most of the time, feel more stuck than not. And the way to deal with that is so simple it's like asking how you should end your sentences (with a period!): MOVE. That's right, move. My friend and colleague Ruthie Fraser wrote this gorgeous little book about that: Stack Your Bones: 100 simple lessons for realigning your body and moving with ease.  Here's more on that. Each exercise has broad applicability; each encourages movement to be natural, but with clear energetic goals and room for improvisation. So "Vary Your Route" begins, "Come to your hands and knees. Lengthen your spine.  Extend your elbows." These cues might be familiar if you've ever done yoga.  However, she encourages us to start with the familiar, and shift to novel shapes. "Habitual movements create habitual thinking.  Feel your mind open as your body travels new routes." She offers simple exercises-- but profound, like a period is profound! One little dot indicating both an end and a beginning!-- that can be utilized at any time, as a foundation for however you prefer to move or exercise.  They can also be used in stillness, as a computer break when working on, say, your college essay, or some other writing project that begs for nourishing interruption. She hopes we can all feel firsthand in our bodies what unstuck could be like. And perhaps it will help you align your ideas a little more clearly with your intentions.  Or introduce some wildness into bland sentences. Speaking of wildness...speaking of moving... I recently listened to an amazing  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Exercise, Practice, State of Mind, Teachers, Writing Tips Tagged With: exercise, inspiration, movement, writer's block

Is your heart smarter than your head?

February 6, 2017 by Sara Nolan

hearts see far

I heart not Stressing Most of us are stressed, and it gets old; our heart sags. (Waiting for your college letters much?  That can wreck you-- so don't be wreck-bait.) But somehow you still get cool points for being the most stressed.  Even though, somewhere deep inside, you know it ain't right.  If you really want to stress yourself out, don’t let me stop you. You're still on the Cortisol Cruise. Go do something more stressful, like trying to keep my toddler from licking all the magnets he fished out from under the fridge. But if you're not so sure you want to feel stressed out all the time, and maybe the hamster wheel is giving you vertigo, read on. The key might be connecting with your own intelligent heart. Heart "Facts" I recently heard (in a long scientific-esque lecture on Le Youtube) that the heart shares a majority of its neurotransmitters with the brain--something like 60%. I don't believe everything I hear. And like most things biological, the picture is probably more complex than that fact alone signals. However, I like this one. In this age of loose facts, when the president decides not only who can vote and who can't, but also whether truth has any business in the executive branch-- I'll cherry-pick my facts. I'll critical think later. I invite you to do the same, just for the duration of this blog post. Because your heart, or so this doctor says... ...perceives 5 seconds faster than da' Brain. (Perceives what? Perceives how? Not sure, but I like where this is heading.). It knows some things first.  I've felt this happen.  Have you? So why not get in synch with your smarter organ? A heart coherence meditation Here’s a  meditation geared for teens, for those moments when you are stressed and just want to come back home. My students love it. (Your parents can and should do it too-- here's a meditation for them.) The meditations take just a few minutes. Call a family meeting to try it out. Or do it by yourself in  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Exercise, Integrity, Practice, Solutions, State of Mind, Uncategorized, Wisdom Tagged With: feel better, focus, heart meditation, parents, stress, stress reduction

Show and Tell in your college essay

April 20, 2016 by Sara Nolan

A throwback to the first time: Show and Tell Little kids will bring anything to Show and Tell at school.  The grimiest blanket. A rock from the park. A one-legged Barbie. A scratched up draft of your college essay. They hold it out with awe. It's theirs, and now everyone is looking at it.  "Show and Tell!" the teacher cues. A very early lesson in attention and narrative technique. The kid launches into an explanation of why this blanket, this rock, this draft-- is awesome. Worthy of a classroom's set of eyes. Just bringing the chosen object to that circle makes it special. The trick: the audience sees the object, experiences it with the Young Narrator.  Your college essay is not that different.  You can pick the grimiest, most common, most scratched up topic-- and you can make it special by how you handle it. But we-- your readers-- have to see what's going on.  You need to SHOW us. There are a few principles to follow, because like everything, it's not THAT simple. Prepare yourself to write. First, have fuel, your apple juice and cookies.  Actually, we recommend water with lemon and some protein. And, if we're being honest, maybe some caffeine. Then, sit in a chair too small for your butt, so you won't want to stay too long and so the world feels big and possible. (Skip this step if you don't like feeling ridiculous). Take out your writing instruments.  Conjure the awe and importance kids feel when they hold out that rock, Show and Tell. SHOW first, then Tell.  Bring your reader to a moment in your life when something small (be small on purpose) made a big difference. Was it the team sweatshirt you picked to wear that fateful day? Was it that unnecessarily snide parting comment you made to mom? Was it a call you missed, a text you sent?  Was it the kind of pen you had?  Was it the last popsicle you ate? Write a scene in which we see the object and the role it played in events. Then, TELL us what the significance  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Exercise, Stories, Uncategorized, Writing Tips Tagged With: college essay, Free-writing, how to show, kindergarten, magic, objects, Show and Tell, writing exercise, writing tips

Your college essay and more in 10 minutes

March 29, 2016 by Sara Nolan

Is this yet another "improve my life in 10-minutes" BS pitch? No.  We don't play with your minutes here. But we want you to get the most out of your time. So-- do you have 10 minutes to spare? (If you're reading this, you probably have 10 minutes. Admit it.  Stop checking your Facebook Feed.) (Everyone has 10 minutes.) But the problem is: what's the most important thing to do-- right now? How should you spend those precious minutes? Here's our recommendations. Determine what you need, first. Need to open up and calm down? Check out this guided meditation from Tara Brach. (It's 10 minutes-ish. Thanks for your generous meditations, Tara Brach!) Need to work out on the sly? Check out this "Quiet Workout." (It's 10 minutes-ish. Modify as needed. Thanks for these original quickies, pop sugar!) Need to say something about something? We recommend-- assess your energy level, consider options 1 and 2 above, hydrate, and then... Freewrite Get your writing instrument/implement of choice: Sit your butt down or stand your butt up. (Don't have a standing desk? DIY with a crate placed on top of a table, or by working on a kitchen counter). Set a timer for 10 minutes. (See? We're precise!) And write about what makes you mad. Without stopping. (Thank you, writing guru Don Murray). Or try this writing prompt, from Ted Ed: A genie grants you three tiny wishes. What are they? (Thank you, TED.  You are so full of useful randomness. Want more prompts?) Help, I really don't have 10-minutes! The multi-taskers version. Even though multi-tasking has been proven as neurological BS (You're uni-tasking, in quick succession, and with crappy outcomes), sometimes we need to layer up.  Especially if we really only have 10 minutes. In that case we suggest: Do the Tara Brach meditation while you are on the toilet or taking a shower. Do the workout while returning a phone call to someone who will understand if you are out of  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Exercise, Practice, Questions, Solutions, State of Mind, Uncategorized Tagged With: 10-minutes, college essay, desire, Don Murray, emotion, freewriting, home workout, mediation, multi-tasking, Pop Sugar, Tara Brach, Ted Ed, writing prompts

Begin your college essay anywhere

March 21, 2016 by Sara Nolan

How to begin writing your college essay? Sometimes it feels harder than bench pressing 3x your weight. Sometimes it feels harder than plucking hairs with your non-dominant hand. Sometimes it feels harder than spelling French words correctly. But it doesn't have to. Faced with the challenge of how to begin, just begin. That is, go around the challenge by refusing to see it as a challenge. Overwrite the fear, inertia, or blank feeling by starting right there, using it as your prompt. Freewrite from this moment Caffeinate yourself until you see double, turn down the sound of babies crying and your neighbor's weird fetish for Frank Sinatra, turn down the sound of siblings having the same old fight, parents barking, friends texting....and start there. I mean, you could start with any of the things listed above, the particulars of your life. Or you could start with the emotion-- or lack of emotion-- that facing an essay brings up. For example, you might set a timer, take a few deep breaths and start: "At this moment, I am staring at the page, well aware that what I put on this page is supposed to be super talented, attractive, and make me sound as Good as Friday. To handle this amount of pressure and anxiety, I am on my third Starbucks Peppermint Latte, which I got with my last dollar for the week, and now I add to my list of crappy things that I might not be able to sleep for a month from the amount of stimulant coursing through my blood, and I notice all the other people working nearby-- I'm in the library-- and that they all seem to be typing freely and easily, so I have to believe they are updating their social media accounts, not writing an application essay.  I just noticed that is the longest sentence ever..." Will you win the Pulitzer for this content? Likely not, but if you do, please mention that this blog helped you get going. That said, who cares?  The way you get over not knowing where to begin is by  Continue Reading …

Filed Under: Exercise, Questions, State of Mind, Uncategorized, Writing Tips Tagged With: anxiety, college essay, Free-writing, how to start, start writing, writer's block

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